(just so it's clear, I am gendefluid (or something like that I dont know yet) and my "father" (my friend is like my father) just calls me son since female pronouns bother me the majority of the time, I prefer they/them/he/him, but she/her is okay too I guess)
Now read on my update/journal
One of my best friends is like a father figure to me, so I call her dad or father and she like accepts it and calls me "Dotison" (a mix of peridot; my birthstone, and "son") and we have our PE class along with two other friends and we were playing volleyball and I'm only semi good at it and I was failing every serve feeling horrible. Until our coach serve